Yesterday’s posting came out of a very drama filled day between my Brother’s Girlfriend and I, which continued further into the evening and into my family time than I would have liked. I am still left this morning reeling a bit from the whole experience.
I think what gets me the most is her acting as his mouth piece. I hate to sound this cold and callus, but the truth of the matter is (in my opinion), she is NOT family; she is technically still an outsider and a tentative one at that. As such, I find I am more upset that my Brother, who chooses to allow her to treat me and my family poorly.
I have been fighting-back the urge to send my Brother a nasty text message this morning, expressing the fact I am cutting them both off and out of my life, burning the bridge if you will. I know that even with that I will always keep a line open for my Brother, but as long as he chooses to allow this type of treatment, I feel like I have to close the access it currently has to me and my family.
I am very much a believer in energy and its effect on a person, family and home. I have reached a point where dealing with her negative energy and dark-cloud effect on me and my family, in order to keep peace and a connection to and with my Brother, is no longer worth it.
In the spirit of the holidays, I do wish them both lots of health and happiness, and continue to wish that they be and find happiness together in the journey of their relationship.
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